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Ladies’ Life Tonight — Pretty Special Speaker
March 13, 2015 at 7:41 am 0
When you grow up in a Roman Catholic family in New York City, becoming a pastor's wife is simply not on your radar. Yet that's what happened to my wife, Julie. To say she is not a "typical" pastor's wife would be an understatement.  She doesn't play the pipe organ, bake with the auxiliary (whatever that is!), or have a blog defining herself in terms of her relationship to me. Actually, when it comes to our relationship, it is fair to say that I am almost as much a "Vice President's Husband" as she is a "Pastor's Wife" -- she is a VP of sales for a medical device firm, a job that takes her across the country and around the world leading her team. Here she is, along with me and our children Taylor (25) and Riley (22). Flamily 4 Best T & C So why am I telling you all this? Because this evening at 7 p.m. at Good Shepherd, Julie is the featured speaker at Ladies' Life, a quarterly event hosted by our LifeGroups ministry.  She'll tell her story through the lens of hearing the inner voice of God.  There are already over 250 women signed up to come, but there's room for more.  And you can't beat the price: free. Ladies Life To pre-register, go to www.gsumc.org/ladieslife See you there!  (I will be very discreet in my presence.)  
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A Tool For Inviting All People
March 12, 2015 at 7:36 am 0
Here is our faith-sharing tool for this Sunday's culmination of Every Life Counts. Every Life Counts Yep.  Movie tickets. The goal of the series has been to equip, enable, and inspire the people of Good Shepherd to share the gospel.  That's why our teaching has centered on 1) one question to help one person take one step closer to Christ; 2) dealing with the three most common objections to faith; 3) a reminder that your best you is when you are sharing him; and 4) the live testimonies from three Good Shepherd regulars about who had invited them into living faith. And so to conclude the series, we wanted to give the people of the church a practical, tangible, invitational tool. And what could be better than movie tickets?  Our worship gathering this Sunday will center around the short film Lose To Gain (similar to Defining Moments that we did in January of '14).  Given the role of film in our culture at large, we believe this artistic piece has great evangelistic power and appeal. We also know it's easier for people to invite their friends to a movie than to church. So this week, there have been thousands of these tickets floating around the Steele Creek community. And we pray those thousands of invites lead to hundreds of people entering into a living relationship with Jesus Christ.    
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From Len Wilson: The Top 25 Fastest Growing Large United Methodist Churches In The USA
March 11, 2015 at 3:36 am 0
Blogger, pastor, and statistical analyzer Len Wilson has compiled a list of the 25 fastest growing large (over 1,000 per Sunday) United Methodist Churches in the USA. You might recognize #19.  And since our 2014 attendance jumped to 1,974, our five year growth rate would move to 28% by the most recent statistics. Anyway, I admire the comprehensiveness of Wilson's record-keeping and, more to the point, appreciate his analysis that follows the list. I add one point to his summary: of the 25 pastors leading these churches, at least seven are graduates of Asbury Seminary, including #1 and #2.  Huh. Here goes, courtesy of Wilson himself:     I believe that the result of creative thinking is innovative practice, and the result of true innovation is growth. While not all growing churches are healthy churches, healthy churches grow, because growth isn’t the goal; it’s the outcome. Because of this, I like to follow the practices of growing congregations. What innovations are happening in the fastest growing large congregations, and how might other churches learn from them? In 2011 I published a list of the top 25 fastest growing large United Methodist churches. Here’s the updated list, and 25 of the most innovative churches in the United Methodist Church today. While average worship attendance is an imperfect indicator, it remains one of the best we have to measure how we’re doing at telling the story of Jesus. While I currently serve in a Presbyterian church, my background is United Methodist, and the United Methodist Church is helpful for such statistical analysis because of its episcopal organizational structure and corporate record keeping. To qualify as “large” for the sake of this analysis, a congregation must have had at least 1000 in weekly worship in 2013, the most recent full year of average weekly worship attendance records. With the benefit of more years of records since my previous post, I elected to rank the churches on a five-year trend (my previous list was on a 3 yr trend), as a five-year trend offers a more precise indicator of sustained growth. Click on a header to sort by that row.
Rank Church Name City State Sr Pastor Pastor Since 2013 AWA Rank by size 5 Yr Growth
1 Faithbridge (*) Spring TX Ken Werlein 1998 3,276 9 108%
2 Harvest (*) Warner Robbins GA Jim Cowart 2001 2,443 18 69%
3 Christ (*) Fairview Heights IL Shane Bishop 1997 1,802 48 61%
4 White’s Chapel (*) Southlake TX John McKellar 1992 6,162 2 52%
5 Morning Star (*) O’Fallon MO Mike Schreiner 1999 2,122 30 52%
6 Cornerstone (*) Caledonia MI Bradley Kalajainen 1990 1,751 52 47%
7 First, Flushing (*) Flushing NY Joong Urn Kim 2011 1,520 63 40%
8 Korean Central Irving TX Sung Chul Lee 1990 2,005 36 39%
9 Apex Apex NC Gray Southern 2012 1,361 84 38%
10 Impact Atlanta GA Olu Brown 2007 1,381 83 38%
11 First, McKinney McKinney TX Thomas Brumett 2006 1,443 72 37%
12 Crosspoint Niceville FL Rurel Ausley, Jr 1998 2,689 15 36%
13 New Covenant (*) The Villages FL Harold Hendren 2011 2,034 35 35%
14 Cove Owens Cross Roads AL John Tanner 1997 1,406 76 34%
15 First, Mansfield Mansfield TX Mike Ramsdell / David Alexander 1995 2,305 23 33%
16 St. Luke’s Oklahoma City OK Bob Long 1991 1,464 69 31%
17 Covenant Wintersville NC Branson Sheets 2004 2,048 33 29%
18 Gulf Breeze Gulf Breeze FL Lester Spencer 2011 2,336 21 24%
19 Good Shepherd Charlotte NC Talbot Davis 1999 1,811 46 23%
20 Crossroads (*) Concord NC Lowell McNaney 1995 1,470 67 22%
21 Church of the Resurrection Leawood KS Adam Hamilton 1990 8,895 1 20%
22 Anona Largo FL Jack Stephenson 1993 1,553 62 20%
23 Grace Fellowship Katy TX James Leggett 1996 2,988 12 19%
24 Saint Timothy on the North Shore Mandeville LA James Mitchell 1994 2,170 26 19%
25 The Orchard Tupelo MS Bryan Collier 1997 2,164 27 18%
A few observations:

Nine churches remain from the 2011 list of growing churches.

This means they’ve had a pattern of continuous growth since at least 2006, which is remarkable. They are: Faithbridge, Harvest, Christ, Morning Star, First Flushing, New Covenant, Cornerstone, Crossroads and White’s Chapel. They’re indicated with an asterisk (*) above. Not coincidentally, 7 of these churches occupy the top 7 spots on the 2015 list.

Stable leadership continues to be key.

The average senior pastor’s tenure is over 15 years, and 19 of the 25 have served their churches over 10 years. The median and mode are both 17 years, which means that if you account for four recent changes in leadership, the length of leadership of these fast growing churches is even longer. Of course, a declining church can have a longtime leader as well, so this isn’t directly causal, but it demonstrates that one factor in growth is stability. As long term leaders move closer to retirement, succession will become an issue. First UMC, Mansfield, has recently made changes in its senior leadership to navigate this transition. William Vanderbloemen’s book Next provides further insight.

Most growing churches aren’t overnight sensations.

While perhaps the dream is explosive growth, such as my colleagues and I experienced during my tenure as creative / media director at Ginghamsburg United Methodist Church in the 1990s, when we grew from 1000 to 3000 in two years, such stories are the exception, not the rule. Most growing churches aren’t overnight sensations; they are the fruit of a long, steady climb in the same direction.

The bias is toward innovation in worship.

10 of the 25 are entirely “contemporary” or “modern” in worship style. 13 have a mix of “traditional” and modern services. Two serve primarily Korean communities, with distinct worship styles fit for their constituency. None are entirely traditional in worship style.

The “Bible Belt” still exists.

20 of the top 25 churches live in what is traditionally known as the “Bible Belt” – below the Mason Dixon line. 6 churches are in Texas (in three UM Annual Conferences), 4 in Florida, and 4 in North Carolina.  
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Top Five Tuesday — How A Text Message With My Son Leads To Top 5 Rock Frontmen
March 10, 2015 at 3:31 am 0
On Sunday evening, I received the following text message from my 22 year old son Riley, a college senior at UNC-Chapel Hill.  I knew he was on his way to a spring break trip in northern Florida.  (Now, before you read what's below, imagine all the messages a college student on the way to a spring break trip could text:  I'm arrested. Can you bail me out?  Or I got in a wreck. Can you come get me.  Or, worst of all:  Mr. Davis, this is the hospital. We have your son's phone and need you to come immediately.) But no, none of that.  Instead, this: Riley:  Yo, diddy (think "daddy" with a deep Southern accent).  Plant or Bono?  Who's a better rock vocalist/frontman covering lyrics, vocals, showmanship, & stage presence? Me:  Bono, though it's close.  Gotta give a nod to longevity.  You in Florida yet? Riley: Almost. Me and (my friend) are talking about the seeding for a best rock frontman March Madness bracket.  Plant, Bono, Mick Jagger, and Freddie Mercury would probably be the one seeds. Me:  Ya got 3 outta 4.  Jim Morrison though I'm not a Doors fan. Riley:  Yeah, we said Jim Morrison, Kurt Cobain, Ozzy, and Eddie Vedder as 2 seeds. Who has time to think of this stuff?!  But in those moments, of course, I was bursting with pride. But pride inevitably leads to blogging.  Which of course makes me come up with a list based on Riley's ingenious March Madness Rock Frontman bracket.  Here are my Top Five. 1.  Bono. Bono The voice.  The sunglasses.  The Time Magazine covers.  The voice.  The cool.  The lyrics.  The voice.  The longevity.  The bike accident in Central Park.  The voice. 2.  Bruce Springsteen. Bruce Springsteen He's almost a solo artist and therefore disqualified, but a) the E Street Band is really a band; b) We won front row seats to a Lexington, Kentucky concert in 1988 and so really now what a performer he is; and c) it's my list and I can do what I want. 3.  Robert Plant. Robert Plant Does anybody remember laughter? 4.  Mick Jagger. Mick Jagger For all his flamboyance, his voice is truly under-rated. 5.  Kurt Cobain. kurt cobain Did anyone ever have a more beguiling mix of innocence and fatalism?  
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Will You Be Next? A Sermon I DIDN’T Preach But The People Of Good Shepherd Did
March 9, 2015 at 3:49 am 0
Here are the preachers from yesterday at Good Shepherd:   Shekinah   That's Eleanor Barley, Bryant Pressley, and Shekinah Carpenter.  All three gave encouraging words about just who had invited them into a living relationship with Jesus Christ.  And in each case it was not a celebrity:  Eleanor's bible study friend, Bryant's girlfriend-soon-to-be-wife, and Shekinah's parents. All three prepared for their roles diligently, and so here are text copies of how they blessed the people of Good Shepherd: Eleanor Barley I was young, married, with a little girl and we began attending a Methodist Church in Irvine, California.  The leader of the women’s ministry announced a through the Bible class.  I thought this would be a good thing for me to do. About two months into the class, I began to watch and listen to a woman in our group that seemed to know Jesus in a different way then the rest of us.  It wasn’t that she was smarter or richer or without difficulties in her life.  She had a child with a chronic illness and the family was not wealthy.  She drove an old car and her clothes were not as fashionable as most women in southern California. Her name was Cherie Olson.  She spoke with such gracious love and kindness.  She moved quietly and calmly whenever I saw her.  There was a countenance upon her face that was peaceful, but she was quick to smile or laugh.  When someone disagreed with her, she never became agitated or tried to justify what she had just explained.  She would smile and ask them to go on and speak about their views. I began to see how different Cherie’s faith and relationship with Jesus was compared to my own.  I never saw her angry or critical or judgmental.  I was, however, not always kind or patient with others.  I was pretty judgmental and critical.  My anger would flare up when I didn’t get my way.  I was pretty much a snob – and very self-focused. More and more I saw that Cherie had not one doubt about the Bible.  She just knew it was the living Word of God and she lived it out in her life.  So one day I asked Cherie how she studied and what she understood about our lessons.  She began to disciple me and I began to love the Word of God and wanted to understand as she seemed to understand it. During these times we were together, the thought came to me that Cherie’s inner life of trust and faith in Jesus and her living relationship with Him was the reason her outer life was so appealing.  She was such a whole person.  Cherie was her true self. I was not my true self and I knew it!  A great desire to have such a life and relationship with the Lord began to grow in me.  I desperately wanted to be on the outside like Cherie, but I knew I would need a change on the inside for this to happen. One day I told Cherie how frustrated I felt about my behavior and I began to cry because I had no ability to change myself.  She asked me if I had given my life to Christ and did I understand the need for the infilling of the Holy Spirit.  She said, “Without the power of the Holy Spirit in me, I would not change.  It is the Holy Spirit who empowers us to become more like Jesus and to become our true selves.”  She then asked me if I would like to pray with her.  I told her I would go home and pray. Armed with the words she had given me to pray, I went home and knelt down by the bed and told Jesus I was sorry for all my sins and how I had ignored Him all these years and would He fill me with His Holy Spirit.  I told Him I loved Him and wanted to know Him better. I didn’t feel any great shaking or changes in me, but I knew in my heart I was on a new road, a new way of living.  I went downstairs and stood at the sink and I heard in my mind the Lord ask me, “Eleanor, what do you want?”  I quickly prayed, “Lord, please take all anger out of my life and please answer all my prayers!”  God has faithfully answered this prayer in ways that are more than I could ask or imagine.  From then on I have asked God to give me opportunities to teach women to love Jesus the way I love Jesus and love His Word and His Presence. I know now it is the Holy Spirit within us that teaches us to know and love Jesus in our inner life so that we are truly who He has made us to be in our outer life with others. And I thank you, Jesus, for Cherie Olson who was the witness for me of a Spirit-filled life.   Bryant Pressley God puts people a long your path. Throughout your journey, you will encounter many. Some are doctors, teachers, waiters, cooks, and, of course, pastors. Seeds are constantly being planted. A woman was put along my path. It was a very tough time in my life. I was young and at the end of my first marriage. I'd joined the Marine Corp right out of high school, and served mostly abroad. I married at a very young age, and thought I had all of the bases covered. A year after marriage I was blessed with my first child. A couple of years later, I'm back in the states - honorably discharged and seperated. I wasn't going to church, and hadn't been for a number of years. I knew of God, but I also knew how I felt when I was in church. I felt like every Sunday, there was a huge Broadway show, and everybody had a part. I didn't know exactly what I was supposed to be feeling like, but I knew that this couldn't be it. I grew up in a Baptist church - Sunday school at 9:30am, Sunday service at 11am and evening service at 5pm. Every Sunday I'd sit there in anticipation of the crescendo of word and screams. See apparently, the Holy Ghost would show up at the same time every week. As I got older, I grew less tolerant, until I found myself doing other things with my Sundays. I had lost trust in my church and wasn't spiritually mature enough to look for another. So I'm working in Philadelphia, PA. Long story short, my roommate worked in the retail music store that I managed, and one day, a friend of his came by the store to visit him. She was by far the most beautiful young lady that I'd been blessed to share air with. When she left the store, I inquired to my roommate about his friend. He told me that she was out of my league, because she was at one of the great law schools in the country, and I shouldn't waste my time. Talking about paths... I met my roommate through two friends who were regional representatives for Sony and Polygram Records. They both lobbied me to give this guy a place to live and a job. On their reputations, I gave him both. Little did I know, right? Several months later, I was working as security for a party that my roommate was promoting. Guess who comes through the doors... Her! Chance? Who knows. The next time she came by the store I got her number. We talked for a month before going out. As things got more serious, she was going back home, to New York, because she'd graduated law school and had a Park Avenue job lined up. She called me one day and asked me if I wanted to work for her. To her surprise I said "yes." Shortly thereafter, I moved to New York City. We'd have some ,"deep" conversations. And she would always ask my thoughts on God and church. I shared my feelings and told her that at some point "I'd find the right church for me." She would tell me about her pastor and how she had experienced some of the same things I had earlier in her upbringing. She'd ask me if I wanted to check it out. I'd tell her no, and she didn't get mad or anything, she'd just say, "O.k.. When you're ready." Well now that I'm actually living in NYC, what's my excuse. One day she asked and I told her that the next time she goes, I'm there. The smile on her face... One Sunday, we met some of her friends and went to service. It was in Brooklyn , NY. The place didn't look like a church, but judging from the line that was winding through the parking lot, around the buildings and up Linden Blvd, something was going on. It was the most amazing religious experience I'd ever encountered. I didn't want to leave. I was at a place in my life where I could receive the spiritual food being served to me. And although the Holy Spirit showed up, He seemed quieter. Several services later, I decided that I was ready to rededicate my life to Christ. I now knew what this was all about. I was so excited to feel this way. When the altar call was made, I can't remember how I got from my seat to the altar, but when I was done, I was a new man in Christ. That wonderful woman, who God placed along my path, I would later marry and have have 2 beautiful children. She never forced me into going to church - she actually teased me with it. I became intrigued by this person who she spoke so highly of and learned so much from, that I wanted to experience it for myself. There were many others along my path. Many that I passed by, without so much as a "hello." There were others who were intimidating - they carried bibles everywhere and felt the need to quiz you. Others were focusing on what you could and couldn't do. I thank God for the backup plan He had for my life. Everyday I fall short of deserving His grace and mercy. But I realize that it's "my testimony" that I have been equipped with, that will allow me to minister to others. Planting seeds. Watching the wheat grow. Shekinah Carpenter Hello! My name is Shekinah Glory Carpenter. Don’t tell me, I already know what you all are thinking, ‘Shekinah…? What kind of name is that?’ Well I am here to tell you all about that and how through the meaning of my name and my families believe in the Lord our God, how I was lead to Christ. From the beginning, my beginning, my parents were always, and still are, strong believers in Christianity and reading the Bible. Before my parents decided to have children they laid down the foundation for me and my sibling’s lives by believing and speaking the verse from Isaiah 54:13 that says “All your children will be taught by the Lord and great will be their peace.”  Both of my parents came to the agreement then that they were going to raise all of their children in church and dedicated me and my siblings to the Lord as infants. I was raised in a household that was filled with the sound of my mom’s voice belting worship music throughout the walls of my room, my father’s reassuring judgment being shared over home cooked meals and with my crazy Holy-Sprit filled, dancer of a God-mother rubbing anointing oil on me every chance that she got. I grew up in the Good Shepherd community, I even went to preschool here as a little girl. My parents and older sister submerged themselves in the church environment, so naturally I wanted to follow in pursuit. Laughter, joy and happiness filled my days and I found myself loving every moment of the life that I lived. As I grew older entering into elementary and later middle school I began to notice a notable difference in the way I perceived things from that of peers around me. I am almost always as happy and energetic as can be and I love caring for people, but compared to the other children around me my personality was deemed as odd and fake. Misunderstood and hurt I went to my mother and father for guidance, asking them why I was so different from the other children. They answered with a simple sentence, “Why you are Shekinah Glory” they said. At the time I didn’t understand what they meant by that and their answer only proved to upset me even more. It took years later and a personal, living relationship with Jesus Christ for me to finally understand what they meant and I did that by finding out what my name, Shekinah Glory, truly means. In the Hebrew bible the Shekinah or Shekinah Glory is the word used to represent the tangible presence of the Glory of God, the Holy Spirit. What came with that realization was a stronger developed faith and the loving reassurance that everyone is made to be who they are, no matter how wacky, energetic or different you may think you are. Psalm 139:14 says. “I praise you because I am fearfully and wonderfully made.” Now I partake in the daily beltings of worship songs, the long hour chats with my father about religious origins and converse often with my Holy-Sprit filled dancer of a God-mother, and I couldn’t be any happier.   Cherie Olson.  Fabia Pressley. Sam & Anjie Carpenter.  Will you be next?
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