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Top Five Tuesday — Top Five Bruce Springsteen Songs
July 26, 2011 at 5:45 am 3


How does someone raised in Texas who spends most of their adult life in North Carolina end up a Bruce Springsteen fan?

Well, those seven years living in New Jersey didn't hurt. After all, many people in that place still want "Born To Run" to be the official state song.

(And doesn't that say everything you need to know about New Jersey's self-esteem? Born To Run's signature line says, "it's a death trap, it's a suicide rap, we've got to get out while we're young!" )

Then there was the time that Julie and I won a ticket lottery and so saw a show from his "Tunnel Of Love" tour from the front row, center seats. An amazing four hour show ensued.

So regardless of geography, I'm a fan -- drawn to the onstage passion, the musical ingenuity and the uncanny wordsmithing of New Jersey's favorite son. Here are my top five Bruce Springsteen songs:

5. Livin' Proof. When Springsteen sings about becoming a father, he sure gets it right: "searching for a little bit of God's mercy, I found livin' proof."



4. The Rising. An elegiac response to 9.11.01, complete with gospel choir in the back. One of these days, we'll do this one in church.



3. Radio Nowhere. Springsteen meets 867-5309 and this thoroughly modern tune is the result.



2. Badlands. He's right: it ain't no sin to be glad you're alive.



1. Brilliant Disguise. The disguise is not the only thing that's brilliant in this one -- so is the lyrical twist at the song's end. A truly haunting depiction of the ambiguities that characterize almost any relationship.



So there it is. A Springsteen favorites list without either of the "Borns" -- To Run or In The USA. Both great tracks, to be sure, but just a little too . . . popular.
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Top Five Tuesday — Top Five Food Rules
July 19, 2011 at 5:05 am 1
I admit it: I've got some weird idiosyncracies when it comes to food.

Some of these have been in place a long time, while others I've had to adopt in recent years as my allergies to gluten & wheat products have emerged.

In any event, here goes: my Top Five Food Rules.

1. No Corn On The Cob in a public place. Why not? Because the kernels get stuck in your teeth, obviously! Even if I eat Corn On The Cob in the privacy of my own home, I have my container of dental floss nearby.

2. No Mixing Desserts. For example, if I have one kind of chocolate after a meal I simply will not add another type in the same time span. So a dessert platter does me no good at all. Why not? I don't want to compromise the taste of that primary dessert by adding a second one.

3. Cottage Cheese goes with anything. Especially at lunch.

4. The Wonderfully Warm Bread Loaf At Outback Is The Quickest Way To Get Sick. I used to think it was the steaks that made me ill afterwards, despite their great taste. Nope. It was eating half a loaf of bread beforehand. No more. And now, a night at Outback starts well and ends well.

5. Leftovers should be eaten. This is a holdover from my childhood in which leftovers were highly valued and never wasted. I've had a difficult time passing this truth on to my little family in Charlotte. I'm still holding out hope, though, and one day this week I'll have leftover sloppy joes for dinner (no bun). It does not get any better than that.
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Top Five Tuesday — Top Five People I Ever Played Tennis With
June 28, 2011 at 5:00 am 3
In honor of Wimbledon, this week's Top Five list has to do with the sport that has made up so much of my life.

And in honor of the fact that I don't really play anymore, this post also honors some people I used to play with. Back when I played, that is.

So here are the five most famous people with whom I have ever stepped on a court. Note: a good number of them are famous only in the relative sense -- they are famous in the world of tennis.

5. Craig Kardon. Of all those on the list, I spent by far the most time on the court with this one. We grew up practicing with and competing against one another in the Dallas area. Sometimes he won; other times I won. Together, we won a state championship in doubles for Boys' 18-and-under. During and after college, however, our tennis careers took very different turns: while I went north and focused on academics and ultimately ministry, he starred at the University of Texas, played professionally, and then found his niche as a coach.

And not just any kind of coach. His first "student" was Martina Navratilova, who had already won eight Wimbledons. Craig coached her to her ninth. Since then, he has also coached former World #1 Ana Ivanovic and even had his own instructional show on the Tennis Channel.




4. Butch Buchholz. Butch was a highly ranked American pro in the 1960s. In 1979, he had settled in Dallas and was looking to stay in shape by practicing with an ambitious teenager in the area. Someone suggested me, and so the next thing I knew we were on the court together. I remember two things: he wore a warm up suit (top and bottom) in 95 degree heat and he used no spin at all on his groundstrokes. Buchholz has since gone on to influence the tennis world by founding and subsequently running the game's "Fifth" Grand Slam -- the Key Biscayne Masters held every March.



3. Paul Annacone. I played Paul in 1980 at a National Junior Davis Cup tryout event in Stanford, California. I had one of those days where even though I knew the guy I was playing against was much better than me, I still won, 7-5, 6-4. He later proved how much better he was than me by getting to #12 in the world and a few years later found his true calling: coaching. As you can see in the picture below, he too has coached some winners. Today it's Roger Federer and in the late 90s it was Pete Sampras. Think he ever says to either of them, "You know, that time I played Talbot Davis . . . "?




2. Chuck McKinley. Chuck McKinley won Wimbledon in 1963 without losing a set the entire tournament. And in the fall of 1978, he was in the same situation as Butch Buchholz a year later: relocated to Dallas and looking to play with a teenager who was eager to improve. My name came up. At that stage, I was as focused as I had ever been and he was a far cry from the player who won Wimbledon 15 years earlier. In fact, he was out of shape and could hardly play in the heat. I do remember thinking, "Even though it's just practice, I'm playing a guy who won Wimbledon!"



1. Rod Laver. Laver should top the list of anyone who has ever hit with him. Winner of two calendar year Grand Slams (1962 and 1969), he's among tennis' holy all-time trinity along with Federer and Sampras. In the spring of 1985, I was living in central New Jersey and covering tennis for The Trentonian newspaper. Laver and Ken Rosewall played an exhibition match just outside of Princeton, and I was there to cover it. I got there very early, brought my racket just in case, and God intervened so that Rosewall was late (I'm not sure about that part). Anyway, Laver asked, "would you like to hit a few?" "No, Rod, I'm busy!" So we hit back and forth for about 20 minutes, and it was for sure the most nerve-filled warm-up I've ever been part of. I played reasonably well, though, and he was awfully nice.

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Top Five Tuesday — Top Five College Campus Buzzwords
June 21, 2011 at 5:00 am 4
Having spent the better part of the last two days in Chapel Hill for Riley's pre-enrollment orientation, I have now been officially exposed to all the latest jargon from the world of academia.

Riley has received orientation in how to be a college student while I have received orientation in how to be the parent of a collegian.

Regardless of the setting, however, if you listen closely, you'll hear the same words and phrases over and over . . . and over.

So what am I hearing this year?

1. First year student. When I entered college back in 1980, I was a freshman. So were all my classmates. Riley? Oh no. He is a first year. Why? Can't you tell? Freshman is an inherently sexist term.

2. Sustainability. Sustainable dorms. Sustainable food. Sustainable communities. Sustainable sustenance. A noble cause to ensure that we don't use more resources than we actually have.

3. Diversity. Diversity is a strong value here at Chapel Hill. Diversity of race, income level, religion, sexual orientation, gender identity, and primary language. I like Good Shepherd's phrase "full color" better as well as the way we have a radical unity of allegiance -- to Jesus -- that supports of diversity of backgrounds. Nevertheless, there is quite a collection of people coming to this quaint college town.

4. Globalization. See Number 3, above. Yet globalization refers specifically to the interconnectedness of North America and Asia in particular, as this school is replete with students from the Far East and the subcontinent of India.

5. Pluralism. All ideas and religions are equally valid. The only absolute truth is that there is no absolute truth. Figure that one out.
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Top Five Tuesday — Top Five Guitar Riffs
June 14, 2011 at 5:26 am 9
My son has helped me understand the difference between a guitar riff and a guitar solo.

A riff is a recurring sequence of notes that forms the song's signature.

A solo is longer and more improvisational. It occurs only once in a song.

I think I like riffs better.

So here they are . . . my top five guitar riffs of all time:

5. Layla by Eric Clapton. The opening moments combine power and sensitivity, boldness and pain as well as anything else in rock's history.



4. Free Fallin' by Tom Petty. Can a legitimate riff be played on an acoustic guitar? When it sounds like this it can.



3. More Than A Feeling by Boston. That first Boston album was such a revelation, and this is one track with staying power.



2. Brown Sugar by the Rolling Stones. This entire list could have come from Keith Richard riffs -- "Satisfaction," "Jumpin' Jack Flash," "Monkey Man," and then a true favorite from a song whose title I can't mention on this blog. Given all those, Brown Sugar's combination of electric and acoustic sounds gives it the nod.



1. Sweet Child O' Mine by Guns N Roses. Ironically, I am no fan of GNR. Axl Rose was one of the first to add violence to the debauchery that already existed in rock culture. The band's lyrics add little to our cultural discourse. But . . . how cool is it when Slash plugs in his piece, hair covering his face, and launches into that unforgettable intro? It's even better when you listen for all the variations on the riff throughout the song.

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