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Throwback Thursday (#tbt), Tennis Style
June 19, 2014 at 1:00 am 0
Thirty-five years ago this week -- June 16, 1979 -- I played the best tennis match of my life in winning the Texas State Championship for Boys' 18-and-under.

I was 17 and was not favored to beat my 18-year-old opponent in the finals.  But it was one of those rare days when I played over my head (we called it tree'd back in the day) and he was slightly below par.

Here's what I looked like then:


Ah, what I wouldn't give to still have a Jack Kramer wood racket, to hit a backhand like that, and to have enough hair to need a sun visor.


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A Valedictory Speech From A Good Shepherd Student
June 18, 2014 at 1:00 am 1
Just this week, Good Shepherd's very own Amber Carter was named the Valedictorian of Renaissance School Of Olympic High.  

Amber has literally grown up in our church, preached for me last November, and this week is serving as a leader in our Vacation Bible Experience.

For her speech, Amber was cautioned not to be too overt regarding her faith.  I think the subtlety made it even more powerful.  Here is the text of her address and a video of her delivery is at the bottom of this post:






Hey class of 2014!  My name is Amber Carter

            It’s so strange to think that we are finally done, but we are.  We have come so far, yet we still have so far to go.  We have learned so much over the last eighteen years, but we have been fed certain lies as well.  We’ve been told that in order to be successful we need to have a good job that makes us lots of money.  We’ve been told that it is better to be smart, be pretty, be liked, we’ve been told to fit ourselves into a mold so that we can be “successful”.  I want to tell you, that none of that matters, and none of that is true.  We are so much more than the dollar amount in our checking account, we are more than a test grade, more than what we see in the mirror, and so much more than what people think of us.  In my life the truth of who I am has been whispered subtly and shouted abruptly.  The truth that there is one who loves me; one who guides me away from the path of this world, away from the evil deep inside each of us.  We are each loved with a love beyond comprehension, beyond condition.  Our success does not come from a paycheck or a popularity contest, but from our own realization of the truth.  The truth that we can use our lives to glorify another.  We can be the people who give food to the homeless, tip more than 15%, and smile at random strangers.  Class of 2014, you are loved, so be loved.  Live your life by reflecting that love onto everyone you meet, and then you will be truly “successful”.     

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Top Five Tuesday — Top Five Long Distance Dedications, Methodist-Style
June 17, 2014 at 1:00 am 2
In honor of the recent passing of Casey Kasem, today's Top Five Tuesday has a uniquely "keep your feet on the ground and keep reaching for the stars" feel about it:  Top Five Long Distance Dedications.






Except these LDDs have a twist -- they all take place within our beloved United Methodist family in the year 2014.

So here they are: the Top Five Long Distance Dedications, Methodist-Style.

5.  From the Group/Gang/Cabal Of 80 Pastors & Theologians to the rest of the denomination:  "Breaking Up Is Hard To Do,"  by Neil Sedaka.



4.  From Adam Hamilton, Michael Slaughter, and the other crafters of the A Way Forward counter proposal to the Notorious 80:  "Baby Come Back," by Player.


3.  From General Board Of Discipleship Staffer Taylor Burton-Edwards, whose piece on "Twelve Simple Rules On What To Wear, What Not Wear, UMC Edition" caused a minor sensation, to the rest of the denomination:  "Sharp Dressed Man" by ZZ Top.


 2.  From the New England Annual Conference to potential clergy candidates from around the country who might have been turned down by their own Boards Of Ordained Ministry for reasons of systemic prejudice"Open Arms" by Journey.


1.  From the Via Media Methodists trio, who are trying fervently to hold together both traditionalists and progressives in a really big tent, to the rest of the known Methodist world:  "Torn Between Two Lovers," by Mary MacGregor.



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Becoming More Wesleyan By Looking Less Methodist
June 16, 2014 at 1:00 am 7
Early Sunday morning, I tweeted out these words:

Discovering that the less Methodist a #umc church looks, the more Wesleyan it becomes.

A number of my friends in the Twitterverse asked me to "explain" or "unpack" or "elaborate" . . . none of which are you really able to do in the character limitations of Twitter.  So, with no such restrictions on this blog space, here goes:  how it is that I believe a church can become more Wesleyan by looking less Methodist?

First of all: what does it mean to be "Wesleyan"?  While my summary is not exhaustive, it certainly involves . .

An evangelistic spirit -- "you have nothing to do but save souls."
A burden for holiness -- "spread Scriptural holiness across the land."
An unwavering belief in both prevenient grace AND free will -- for example, Wesley's 'Predestination Calmly Considered' in which you open the booklet and there is nothing calm about it.
A commitment to a living faith made evident by good works.
A celebration of the gift of assurance -- "he has taken away my sins, even mine."


Those characteristics drew me to the Methodist movement in the first place, prompted me to receive training at Asbury Seminary, and motivated me to enter UMC ministry.

Yet the sad irony is that many of the structures a local United Methodist congregation adopts in its effort to be faithfully United Methodist -- structures that by and large arose in the 20th century -- actually inhibit that church's ability to be authentically Wesleyan.

Just a few examples:

Liturgical legalism that arranges & formalizes many of our worship services so that there is no opportunity for an invitation to salvation at the conclusion.  Altar calls become "what Baptists do" instead of what Methodists celebrate.

Hymnal loyalty that while it honors the musical treasures of our tradition, nevertheless makes it difficult-if-not-impossible to adopt musical styles that reach emerging generations.  And singing Freely, Freely on an acoustic guitar does not make your music "current" or "generational."

Special Sundays & church fund raisers that nickel-and-dime people via special offerings rather than teaching them the robust truths of giggling generosity.

Outdated Ecumenism that takes Wesley's "Catholic spirit" in one direction -- straight left.  It's why many United Methodists consider our membership in the  National Council of Churches to be a vital expression of our interdenominational spirit but recoil at the thought of attending an Orange or Catalyst Conference -- places where genuine ecumenical energy is unleashed these days.

In our current context, local churches who follow the United Methodist Hymnal's "order of worship," who participate in each of the denomination's six Special Sundays, who support the NCC, and who put the cross & flame logo on their bulletin (by the way, has anyone considered the impact of burning crosses if you're trying to grow a multi-ethnic church?) are considered Methodist.

On the other hand, a church like Good Shepherd, with its rock band, its no-special-offering-or-fund-raisers-allowed policy, its frequent invitations to salvation, its own logo with no intersection of fire & cross, and its mission partnership with churches and agencies of all kinds is considered to be rebellious.

One time I was even referred to online as a "formerly Methodist pastor."

Yet I would say that it is precisely because we don't look very Methodist we have been freed up to be authentically Wesleyan.

We mess up.  We make poor decisions. We don't always live up to our potential.

However, people get saved.  That's right.  In church, they stand up to surrender their lives to Jesus as Lord and Savior.

People move to maturity and holiness.  The entire Wash Me! series was an extended exploration of how God empowers us to live holy lives in the 21st century.

People give.  Boy, do they give.  Because they are not nickel and dimed, they give faithfully, gigglingly, and extravagantly -- especially when they know we are going to give a whole lot of it away.

And just yesterday -- because we have flexibility in how we begin and end each service -- the people of the church celebrated the gift of assurance by rejecting "partial acceptance" and accepting the full. Here's what it looked like:


Did we get that from the Methodist hymnal?  No.

Did it come from a church with a heart like Wesley's?  I pray so.





 

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Head Scratchers, Week 2 — Hate Your Father & Mother
June 13, 2014 at 1:00 am 0
Oh, c'mon Jesus.  "Hate your father and mother"?!

Why would you use such inflammatory language?

And why would a church EVER choose to use such a reading as the basis of its message on Father's Day?

And what in the world could any of this have to do with my living relationship with Jesus Christ?

All good questions.

And we've got answers.

Sunday.

8:30. 10.  11:30.




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