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Top Five Tuesday — Top Five Biggest Chokes In Sports
August 7, 2012 at 1:00 am 0
My occasional glance at this year's Olympics has again brought home the most troubling reality in sports:  choking.

There are two ways of choking in sports.  The first happens when the athlete is so overwhelmed by the situation that he or she never really shows up to compete in the first place.

Like when I lost 6-1, 6-0 to my opponent from our most hated rival during my senior year of college tennis.

The second kind of choking is even worse: when the athlete is on the verge of a big win and somehow finds a way to turn the expected victory dance into tears of defeat.

Like when I had match point against a favored opponent in the 1979 National Boys 18-and-Under Grass Court tournament, hit a forehand (of course) into the net, and found a way to lose 7-6 in the third.

Not that I'm still haunted by those losses or that choking.

For this post, I'll focus on the second kind of choking.  I'll also stay away from Olympic sports as those are almost too cruel:  in every other sport a choker can come back next year for redemption.  An Olympian has to wait four.

So what are the top five "snatch defeat from the jaws of victory" chokes I've seen?  Here goes:

5.  Arthur Ashe loses to Ilie Nastase in the 1972 U.S. Open.  You have to know that Arthur Ashe was my hero when I was ten years old.  And he was playing beautifully against the Romanian Nastase in the 1972 finals, leading two sets to one and 4-2 in the fourth.  But then . . . he let Nastase's antics and the pressure of the moment get to him, and an hour later he was giving the runner up speech.  Thank God he eventually won the 1975 Wimbledon.













4.  Boston Red Sox lose to New York Mets, 1986 World Series.  Everyone blames Bill Buckner for the Red Sox' loss in Game Six.  What they fail to remember is that the game was already tied when Buckner made his error, thanks in large part to relief pitcher Bob Stanley's erratic pitching.  In any event, it only took a matter of minutes before the Sawx went from surefire Game Six winners to no-way-they-could-take-Game-Seven losers.



3.  Greg Norman loses seven stroke lead, 1996 Masters.  Watching this happen in real time was like watching a car wreck in slow motion: you know what's going to happen, you know it will be ugly, but there's nothing you can do to stop it.  Norman was so much better than the rest of the field for the first three days of Augusta.  Unfortunately, they don't give prizes for 54 holes.  Nick Faldo (you'll see him again) was the beneficiary of Norman's gag.


2.  Memphis loses to Kansas, 2008 NCAA Finals.  Led by Derrick Rose and coached by John Calipari, the 2008 Memphis Tigers were the best team in the land yet they had an Achilles' heel: free throw shooting.  Bill Self's Kansas squad knew that, fouled incessantly over the last two minutes, and Memphis clanked enough from the line to turn a 10 point lead into an overtime loss.



1.  Scott Hoch misses 18 inch put that would have won 1989 Masters.  This one is just sad for two reasons:  1) "Hoch" rhymes with . . . "choke"; and 2) Hoch never really recovered and never won a Major.  Guess who gained from Hoch's missed gimme?  Nick Faldo.  Of course.  Maybe that's why he such a good golf announcer these days.



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Divine Dirt Maker
August 6, 2012 at 1:00 am 0
So yesterday we started Money Talks, a new series about faith, time, stuff, and money.

Taking off from Psalm 24:1 -- the earth is the Lord's and the fullness thereof -- and inspired by Tony Evans, we landed together at the cautionary reminder:  Don't confuse the resource for the source.

When we regard our resources -- bank accounts, work ethic, ingenuity, financial planning -- as our source, than that resource comes to own us.  The results of that are never good.

In contrast, when we recognize that God is the source of all of it -- raw materials, talent, perseverance, everything involved in making us money -- then we are free to live more abundantly.

Along the way, we talked about what phenomenal things the human race has done with raw materials:  we've built skyscrapers, bridges, rockets, and dams.

But do you know the one thing we haven't done?  We've never made dirt, the ultimate raw material.

We may be masters with raw materials, but we are not masters of raw materials.  That belongs to God and God alone. 

To reinforce our notion of God as source and "divine dirt maker" we invited the people of Good Shepherd to come forward at the conclusion of the service and pick up a small card with Psalm 24:1 inscribed on it.

Except the cards were all places in large containers full of . . . dirt.  The people of the church had to stick their hands in dirt as a reminder of the One who made that dirt in the first place.

It all makes me think of David Crowder's Wholly Yours, one of my favorite of the new generation of Christian pop songs.  We've done this one before in church but it didn't exactly fit yesterday's service flow. 

So I give it to you here, and I pray you'll appreciation the lyrical insights & innovation as much as I do.

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Money Talks, Week One — Show Me The Money!
August 3, 2012 at 1:00 am 0
Money talks.

But what does it say?
What does it say about you?  Your values?  Your priorities?
Your relationship with others?
Your connection to God?
Most talks about money in church include only two exhortations:  spend less and give more. 
This series is different than that.  It is a comprehensive look at what Scripture says about money, stuff, time, and faith.
Money talks.  Let’s take some time to hear what it’s saying to us and about us.
August 5:         Show Me The Money!
August 12:       Your Money Or Your Life
August 19:       Take The Money And Run
August 26:       Where Your Mouth Is 
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Thursday Observations
August 2, 2012 at 1:00 am 0
A random sample of some things I've noticed recently . . .

  • Based on my drives past Rivergate Shopping Center on Wednesday, Thomas Menino and Rahm Emanuel have done Chick-Fil-A a huge favor.
  • Tennis in the Olympics is a bit like football in March: it's nice, but who really needs it?
  • We've never elected a bald president in my lifetime.  We won't this time, either.
  • Some people in church want to remain anonymous for awhile and others want all the attention you can give them . . . and it's difficult to know in advance who falls into which camp.
  • If you buy a car at a certain dealership, they will call you three years later offering to "buy your car back" and put you in a new one for the "same monthly payment."  Except that doesn't count all the payments you already made.  People evidently fall for it or the dealerships wouldn't keep doing it.
  • Based on his words in the Gospels, Jesus seems much more interested in creating a movement of followers than in raising up the next generation of leaders.
  • Charlotte survived Southpark's temporary closure.  Barely.
  • If medical care was like veterinary care -- meaning, you pay for the services directly -- our health care issues would be much different.  Not easier, just different.
  • Newspapers may be on the way out but I can't eat breakfast without one.
  • Tanking in badminton?  Whoda thunk it?
  • It takes a certain amount of ego to stand up in front of a crowd believing you have something to say that is worth hearing.  Some preachers are good at reigning in the ego that is inherent in the task.  Others are not.
  • The left thinks that Western Europe has the ideal economic system.  The right thinks it's in Singapore.
  • If you work in an office, you should have a day of sending no emails to other people in that same office.  Personal interaction does wonders for office camaraderie.
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Common Ground
August 1, 2012 at 1:00 am 0
I remember moving into the parsonage at Mt. Carmel UMC in Monroe in June of 1990 and on that first day receiving visits from neighboring Methodist preachers in the area.

Those visits and the friendships that emerged out of them became manna from heaven for me during those first few years of ministry.  The same ones who welcomed me later took the time to mentor me.

Life is so much richer when you make connections with people going through the identical celebrations and disappointments as you.

It's why writers form writer's groups.

It's why moms start moms' groups.

It's why workers join unions.

It's why people in recovery attend support groups.

And it's even why people at Good Shepherd connect in LifeGroups.

Who shares common ground with you?

And how are you sharing life with them?
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